Engaging the services of a Private Investigator/Private Detective to check on your partner is always a difficult decision – However Not knowing is possibly even more difficult.
People who contact us regarding unfaithful/cheating partners either have their suspicions or know of their partners’ infidelity but need the proof. Regardless of the reason, everyone has thought long and hard about contacting a Private Detective/ Investigator, before they actually make that call.
Unlike trying to find a good Dentist, Solicitor, Financial Adviser or other professional, we understand that it is almost impossible to perhaps ask friends whether they know of a good Private Detective/Investigator. You no doubt want to keep your personal affairs to yourself and not advertise that you may be having problems to friends or work colleagues.
In most cases it is changes in behaviour that causes suspicion. You need to be sure if your suspicions are founded or not. In some cases you will be sure your partner is being unfaithful or at best lying to you and you just need physical proof/evidence before you confront them.
If your partner is being unfaithful then you certainly have the right to know. If they are not then you need proof in order to alleviate your uncertainty and stress. It is only by having this information that you can get on with your life.
If you think your partner is having an affair, the main characteristics of someone who is cheating is secrecy, sudden change of behaviour, getting in late or going out more often and guarding their mobile phone. People having affairs need to speak with love interest or see them at every opportunity. We suggest that you plan an evening or weekend away without your partner, thus allowing us the opportunity to catch them in the act or as we often advise give them enough rope and the rest will be inevitable.
The most important rule and probably the hardest thing to do, is NOT to let your partner become aware of your suspicions. Without the evidence they will most likely deny it.